Saturday, November 30, 2013

Our Beautiful Bambino's first few weeks

What a whirlwind!  It seems the first few weeks/months with all of my babies is a blur.  We are trying to soak it in and enjoy this time with our new bundle.  

Our new "normal" seems to change each week, but I'm trying to roll with the punches.  I feel so amazingly blessed to have such a sweet husband that does so much of the care giving.   

The first few weeks I think I scared Lucy away from Sullivan.  Not intentionally, of course.  I made the kids wash their hands every time they wanted to hold him or touch him.  She got worried that she would make him sick.  Notice she is fresh out of the shower in this picture.  It wasn't until he was almost a month old that she said, "Mom, I've only held him three times."  She has since helped a ton and holds him while I make dinner or finish a task.  

We quickly realized we didn't have a rocker or comfy chair to feed the boy in.  Just a few days after getting home, Jason went and bought this beauty.  


Four days old


Jason and Lucy thought it would be funny to play a little "Where's Sullivan".  


One week old




These pictures were from when he was 2-3 weeks old.  I was feeling very inadequate as a parent at this point.  His tummy started to give him quite a bit of trouble and he wouldn't sleep longer than 15-20 minutes at a time…especially during the day.  This was when I decided to stop reading the baby books and just do what felt right.  It's been smoother sailing since then.  There are still days that I get really frustrated, but it seems on those days that I am blessed with more perspective.  I am reminded of someone that is struggling with a severely sick baby or I read an article about someone who has lost their child.  Depressing?  Yes, but it helped me to recognize how lucky I am to have a strong, healthy baby.  Post-partum emotions are tough!  Up and down, up and down.  

We tried not swaddling his arms for a day.  It didn't help.  His tummy prefers to be swaddled real tight and held even tighter.  


Little bit of tummy time.  



 White noise helps him sleep a few more minutes here and there.  This particular day I tried the dryer.  
Usually the blow dryer worked the best.  


This picture cracks me up.  He seems to be saying, "Really.  You think this looks comfortable?"

Thanksgiving 2013


Our annual Gratitude Turkey made a beautiful comeback.  Some of my favorites for this year:  veiacols (vehicles), famlei, fun, pepl ho srv us (people who serve us)


We had Thanksgiving dinner with a couple of the families that live on our street.  Juan and Crystal Cardona and Chuck and Eden Cranston.  It was nice to share our delicious meal with friends.  



Graham lucked out and got the turkey leg this year.  He was pretty excited about it.  

That night, Mt. Etna put on quite the show.  Quite the eruptions!!  These were taken with my iPhone, so not too impressive, but hopefully I'll be able to catch more with the new camera I got for Christmas.  



This last picture is from right in front of our house  You can see the red dot in the distance.  I have to admit, it was a little scary to see it going off.  These pictures don't do it justice.  But, since then, we've seen it erupt many times.  We're told that little eruptions happen all year.  We also read somewhere that it would take six days for lava to reach our home if there was a big eruption.....which there won't be......please still come see us.  

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Grandma to the Rescue!

Back in January, when we got word that we would be moving to Italy, I was initially excited/shocked.  I was 6-7 weeks pregnant and feeling super yucky.  A few minutes after we found out I, I got super sad and told Jason, "We have to pay for Mom to come when the baby was born!"  He agreed right away that she would come and I was able to go back to being excited.  

She made her way to us about two weeks after Sullivan was born.  She had spent three weeks with Beth and baby Flynn, took a week to go home and be with Dad, and then flew across the world to help us.  We were all soooo happy to see her and show her our new surroundings.  We were even more happy to have her here to help me through my crazy for a couple weeks.  

We were able to take her to a few places so she could experience Italy a little bit.  The first place was Piazza Duomo (dome plaza) or, it's sometimes called, Elephant Square.  It's the city center of Catania.  

We, of course, stopped for some gelato.  I wanted Mom to try the Mandorla Granite.  She wasn't a fan.
This picture doesn't show it very well, but Graham was covered in his chocolate gelato.  This is classic of him and Ben.  They wipe their mouths all over their clothes and then we get to walk around the rest of the afternoon with dirty children.  


Not a great picture, but this is the fountain in the middle of the Piazza.  On top of the fountain is the stature of an elephant.  Hence the name, Elephant Square.  I think Mom was laughing at something Benny and Graham were saying.  

Grandma took good care of Baby Sullivan while she was here.  She did a lot of the night shifts and helped me try and figure out what he needed during his colicky moments.  It made my heart happy to watch her wrap him up tight, rock him, and sing softly to him to help him settle down.  
We had to have Halloween cookie night.  Mom spent the afternoon making the cookies for the kiddos to frost.  
Jason stayed home with the kids one night so that Mom and I could go out to eat.  We chose to go to Dona Fortunata up in Motta.  It was good!  We had fun trying to explain what we wanted to the waitresses.  We got there around 6:30 and we were the only ones there.  About the time we were leaving, 8:00, people were filtering in.  In Italy, dinner doesn't start until after 8.  Some of the restaurants cater to the Americans, though, and open earlier.  




We, of course, had to take Grandma to Taormina.  The boys earned a chance to pick out a little toy and they chose these funny little spiders.  You hold the leash and pump the little ball to make it jump forward.  They were entertained at the piazza for a long time and then at home for over an hour.

Benny got his rocking' Batman shirt from Grandma.  She always comes bearing gifts and remembers the things they like.


Sullivan thought Taormina was just okay.



Notice the cruise ship down in the ocean.  We always see a couple of them when we come.
  

Benny, Grandma, Sullivan, and I made our way to Caltigirone on her last day here.  We had a lot of walking on little streets and alleys, so whenever a car would come, Benny would smash himself against the wall to make room.  

Remember, Caltigirone is famous for all of it's ceramics and pottery.  Many of the shops were closed…probably riposo again, but we were able to get into quite a few still.  We were both on the lookout for new butter dishes to buy.  We went and got a little treat at the bar and then went into one last shop.  The lady there saw us searching for something and I was able to describe what we wanted and that we both wanted rosso (red).  She made a call and asked us to aspettare (wait).  A few minutes later, another woman showed up with three or four dishes in red.  Mom chose a beautiful piece along with a spoon that matched.  I decided to wait and make sure it's what I really wanted.  We were so pleased that we found it and that I was able to communicate a little bit in Italian.  


Benny always has a good time checking out the steps and posing for us.  




Mom was here for two whole weeks.  The night before she had to leave, we went out to eat at a little diner on base and then went to the store to get ice cream and candy to make shakes.  The kids were in heaven!  She let them choose whatever they wanted. 

On her last Sunday here, she made us cinnamon rolls.  We love, love, love her rolls and it was such a special treat.  Especially because we would be missing out at Christmas time. 

 At bedtime, the night before she left, I was so sad to be saying goodbye the next morning.  I had been looking forward to her coming since we arrived in Italy and now I know I won't see her until next summer.  That's a tough pill to swallow.  Sullivan is a sweet baby, but has trouble sleeping because of some tummy trouble.  I was so worried about how I would handle everything after she left.  She reassured me, as she always does, that I would be okay and to just enjoy holding my last baby and take it all in.  Those words have helped me on a daily basis since she left.  I'm so grateful that she got to come all this way to spend precious time with us.  

Feeding the Missionaries

We love feeding the missionaries!!  We have four sisters and four elders that serve in our area.  They mainly serve in Catania, but we are lucky enough to have them attend our branch every week, too.  Sunday work best for us to feed them, so they follow us home from church and hang out for a while as we get dinner ready.  The kids LOVE having all the attention and the missionaries love having some American style food for a change.  

We try to keep it simple.....our house is small and there's a lot of them.  We did hamburgers and hot dogs the first week.  The next time was tacos (technically Mexican food, oops), and then this last week the commissary ran out of almost all meat, so we decided to have breakfast for dinner...waffles, pancakes, eggs, etc.  It was so fun!  


A couple of the missionaries are Italian.  It was fun to see the Americans teach them how to eat their waffle or how we fold our tacos.  They LOVE peanut butter!  One elder was putting it on his pineapple from the fruit salad.  They don't have it here, really.  


Graham made this little paper man after one of the spiritual thoughts they gave.  I can't remember why.  I'm pretty sure it says, "the best grop of mishinares".

Monday, November 25, 2013

Taormina…Bellissimo!

Back in September we made our way about an hour north to a town called Taormina.  It's beautiful city placed on the side of a mountain right on the ocean.  It quickly became a family favorite and we knew we'd have to take all of our visitors there.  
We got there right as the riposo was starting.  That's the time in the afternoon when most things in the cities close down and everyone takes a break.  It's anywhere from 1-4 ish.  There were still a few shops open, but many were closed. We didn't mind because it made our walk less crowded.  



The views were amazing!  


We made our way to the city Piazza (plaza).  There always seems to be a church in the city centers along with a couple little food shops.  They call the little cafes here "bars", which is kinda funny.  
No Italian outing is complete without gelato.  Benny always, always gets just plain ciaccolato (chocolate).  Lucy and Graham seem to always get stracciatella (chocolate chip) or another favorite is nutella flavored.  
This is my new favorite treat.  It's almond flavored granite, which is kind of like Italian ice.  It reminds me of the icing my mom puts on her cinnamon rolls.  The downer is that granite (pronounced graneeda) is usually only served during the summer.


Benny is all about the funny faces lately.



In the city there are ancient ruins of an amphitheater.  It's incredible!  We paid the arm and the leg (7 euro each) to get into it.  It was worth the money just to see the amazing views from higher on the mountain. 




The kiddos and my large and in charge pregnant self.  




Taormina Bellissimo  (lovely Taormina)